About The Song
In the realm of country music, heartache and sorrow have long been the cornerstones of countless ballads, each one a poignant testament to the complexities of human emotion. Among these timeless classics, Conway Twitty’s “This Time I’ve Hurt Her More Than She Loves Me” stands as a beacon of raw vulnerability and heartfelt regret. Released in 1975, the song quickly ascended to the top of the country charts, cementing its place as one of Twitty’s most enduring hits.
From the opening notes, Twitty’s rich baritone voice weaves a tapestry of lament, his every word imbued with the weight of a thousand apologies. The lyrics, penned by Earl Thomas Conley and Mary Larkin, paint a vivid picture of a love gone astray, where the narrator’s careless actions have inflicted wounds that may never fully heal.
“This time I’ve pushed her love too far This time I’ve hurt her more than she loves me”
The chorus serves as a stark confession, a declaration of self-inflicted defeat. The narrator’s admission of wrongdoing is devoid of self-pity, instead carrying a heavy dose of remorse and a desperate longing for reconciliation.
As the song progresses, the narrator delves deeper into the depths of his despair, haunted by the image of his lover’s tear-stained face and the unspoken pain he has caused. The lyrics capture the universality of heartache, resonating with anyone who has ever experienced the sting of regret.
“I’ve watched her cry a thousand tears And I’ve caused every one of them”
The bridge offers a glimmer of hope, a faint plea for redemption. The narrator acknowledges the depth of his transgression, yet he clings to the belief that his love is worth salvaging.
“I know I’ve done wrong, I know I’ve done bad But darling, please don’t send me away”
The song’s conclusion leaves the listener with a sense of poignant uncertainty. The narrator’s fate remains unresolved, hanging in the balance between the weight of his past actions and the enduring power of love.
“This Time I’ve Hurt Her More Than She Loves Me” is a timeless ballad that transcends the boundaries of genre and era. It is a testament to the enduring power of music to capture the complexities of human emotion, offering solace and understanding to those who have experienced the depths of heartbreak and regret. Conway Twitty’s masterful delivery elevates the song to an even greater heights, imbuing every word with a depth of emotion that resonates with listeners of all ages and backgrounds.
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… She wore that fallin’ outa love look, I’d even swore upon the good books.Still the last lie I told her, was the one she couldn’t believe.No more crying on her shoulder, she won’t even let me hold her and This Time I Hurt Her More Than She Loves Me.I’ve been too busy drinkin’, She’s been too busy thinkin’ . ‘Bout the kind of love she needs and the man she never sees.But lord she’s already stood more than I was ever good for and This Time I Hurt Her More Than She Loves Me.I’ve been too busy drinkin’, She’s been too busy thinkin’. ‘Bout the kind of love she needs and the man she never sees.But lord she’s already stood more, than I was ever good for and This Time I Hurt Her More Than She Loves Me.Lord this Time I Hurt Her More Than She Loves Me.