About The Song
In the realm of country music, few names resonate with the same level of heartfelt emotion and poignant storytelling as Conway Twitty. His rich, baritone voice, capable of conveying both tenderness and despair, has earned him the title of “Honky Tonk Angel,” a moniker that perfectly encapsulates his ability to capture the complexities of human love and loss. Among his vast repertoire of hits, “That’s When She Started To Stop Loving You” stands out as a timeless masterpiece, a ballad that delves into the depths of a love slowly fading away.
Released in 1969, “That’s When She Started To Stop Loving You” marked a turning point in Twitty’s career, propelling him to stardom and solidifying his status as a country music icon. The song’s success can be attributed to its relatable narrative, a poignant tale of a love that has gradually eroded due to the protagonist’s neglect and unfaithfulness. The lyrics, penned by renowned songwriter Dallas Rains, paint a vivid picture of a crumbling relationship, where subtle signs of detachment foreshadow the inevitable end.
Twitty’s masterful delivery breathes life into the lyrics, his voice imbued with a palpable sense of regret and desperation. He effortlessly conveys the protagonist’s growing realization that his actions have driven his lover away, his voice cracking with emotion as he sings, “Does she seem a little cold when you love her / Does she turn away when you hold her tight / Just search your soul and you will discover / How you hurt her, night after night.”
The song’s melancholic melody, perfectly complementing the lyrics, further enhances the emotional impact. The slow tempo mirrors the gradual disintegration of the relationship, while the mournful strains of the guitar and pedal steel evoke a sense of longing and despair.
“That’s When She Started To Stop Loving You” is more than just a country song; it’s a universal tale of love and loss, a poignant reminder of the delicate nature of human relationships. Twitty’s heartfelt performance and the song’s relatable narrative have cemented its place as a country music classic, a song that continues to resonate with listeners across generations.
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Does she seem a little cold when you love her?Does she turn away when you hold her tight? Just search your soul and you will discover How you hurt her night after nightAnd when was the first time she begged you to love her?But you turned away and acted like a fool And when was the first time she lay there and cried? Well that’s when she started to stop loving youDo you wonder why she’s turning to another?And if you love her, you’d better tell her so ‘Cause she’s finding out that anyone will love her And it won’t be long ’til you’ll have to let her goAnd when was the first time she begged you to love her?But you turned away and acted like a fool And when was the first time she lay there and cried? Well, that’s when she started to stop loving you